In the context of a leadership or personal power skill (i.e., earned power) self awareness is not just conscious knowledge of ones own character, feeling and desire.
More importantly is using this knowledge coupled with the feedback cues from those you are interacting with to achieve the best result. This results in good feeling s all around about the interaction.
In brief, the more critical aspect of this skill is not the awareness about your own motivations, feelings and reactions, rather the impact these are having and how you use it for everyones benefit.
Awareness enables you to leverage this knowledge about yourself in real time to make every encounter positive and memorable for the others. It is also the more effective approach to becoming the catalyst for the desired reaction.
Enabling others to do things they did not know they could
Your earned power is very dependent on using your self awareness effectively. This is a critical skill in your behavioural toolbag to attain and maintain respect.
By optimizing your interraction with others it becomes more likely they will exercise their own leader within.
In a team environment the use of self awareness broadly by all team members simply feeds on itself creating a harmonious and hugely effective group. You can set the example to get this going.
This is leadership not from the front, but rather from within. The actions of the catalyst in the mix prompt the self awareness practice to commence universally and ultimately it feeds on itself.