Does the fulfillment of one’s wishes, expectations, or needs and the associated pleasure you derive from achieving what you seek depend on other people and events?
That is, are you able to personally guarantee living a satisfying life? Is satisfaction within your control or is it dictated by others? The simple answer is you have absolute control, unfortunately though it is probably a bit more complex.
Freedom to Interpret
No doubt your own thoughts and perceptions are influenced by external factors like the behaviour of others and events outside your control like the weather.
How you view the impact of those external factors can be completely within your conscious thinking abilities to decide. Are the external occurrences satisfying and what can be done to make them satisfactory? The answer, your reaction, is yours to control?
Fulfillment
Simply deciding your life events are fulfilling does not make it so. This probably seems like an unrealistic approach, after all shit does happen and pretending it does not is a bit myopic.
Well it is true our lives are varied and full of happenings outside our direct prevue, some things distasteful and unsatisfying to us, when taken as a whole can be perceived in a way satisfactory to ourselves. It is a personal choice.
Two Worlds
In 1968 the band Sweetwater released a song titled “Two Worlds” which highlighted for me some of the thoughts expressed here.
The chorus lines “I can’t stop livin, I never get tired” epitomize the positive attitude, that when undertake, guarantees a full and satisfying life. It is your choice.
