Home Automation – Convenient or Creepy

Using a mobile device to control key functions of your home is here.  While not yet as widespread in North America as an automobile in every driveway, television in every living room and at least one computer in every home, it is on it’s way.

Big Brother is Watching!

As you approach your house the pre-set distance from your phone and home triggers automatic lighting.  Various levels of brightness, even some hues of different colors.  Your phone informs you a parcel was dropped at the front door earlier in the day and a picture of the parcel on your door step pop’s up.

You were particularly cold today so before you left the office you raised the temperature.  It will be a toasty 25 degrees (centigrade) when you walk in.  This is different from a scheduled raise and drop in the thermostat.  The song you choose on your drive home is playing softly and/ or loudly in all the selected rooms.  You greet your baby using face time (she lives with your former wife) You’ve been watching  the toddler all day from the office on the baby cam.    Tthe door to door salesman who had rung your bell earlier is long gone as you told him firmly but politely to take off – this from your office without anyone even opening the door.

Thirty minutes after your arrival the courier shows up (your phone had notified them you were home – GPS tracking) with the groceries your fridge had ordered online based on the shopping list created by you scanning labels of what you wanted, had finished and needed more of.

The technology exists today to do all this things and more.

Impenetrable Security

Of course fail-safe security against intrusion and hacking does not exist.  And the government (including law enforcement and taxation) want to know all about your habits and behaviors (as much as the hacker) and is it just a matter of time before they are tapped in.

If you think about my automation scenario it is pretty cool and seems to be a great advance in convenience and efficiency (maybe even safety), but I wonder this over exposure of your life is not a bit creepy/scary  ( No different from social media in some ways though).

Stay tuned for more on this topic tomorrow – from a commercial perspective and more about security.

Worry and Acting Responsibly

Mad magazine first published as a comic in 1952 becoming a satirical magazine in 1955.  The mag’s famous mascot is Alfred E. Neuman.  Alfred’s motto is “What me worry”.

Mad is still published today albeit with a much reduced circulation from their peak year of 1974 (two million).  Maybe they should try pictures of nude women (see yesterday’s post).

I grew up reading Mad (although I have not read an issue in years) and I always admired the “What me worry” slogan.

Managing your Worries

Years ago at a seminar I attended; the key note speaker spoke about using  a shrug and mantra ” it is what it is”  or ” it just is” to resolve things that would worry you and allow you to move on.

Strangely I have found this technique to be very effective for me and practice it regularly.  Logically worrying about, or being bothered by, things you cannot change does not make sense.

What about acting responsibly?

A recent experience got me thinking about some of the potential negative impacts on others  when you follow the “What me worry?” principles.

Let’s say you are regularly late for appointments.   Comments like “traffic was terrible”,  “my wife was late and held me up” can work really well from a personal perspective.  That is to say “it is what it is, what could I do”?   Of course this could work for those waiting for you as well – “It is what it is, you are always late, no worries”.

I do have a bit of emotional reaction to this scenario however.

It make me realize that while the ability to relax and enjoy a moment, not to worry about things that don’t deserve to worried about is a great practice to have in your behavior arsenal, but like all things a balance is needed.

Everybody is important and a promise is a promise are key values that need to factor into this equation.  Sometimes worrying about how you negatively impact others is appropriate.

Children of the Revolution

The other day I was listening to the deep tracks channel on Sirius/XM satellite radio.   A number 2 hit song on the charts by Marc Bolan (aka T-Rex) called Children of the Revolution was playing.   The announcer introduced the song as for “The children of the revolution – may they live on forever”

Who are they?

The song is about teen rebellion.  I am guessing the announcer is referring to living on forever as a metaphoric concept, as humans don’t live forever in reality.

Is this a call for anarchy.  That is to say constant revolution is needed to revitalize and possibly this is a valid and beneficial ongoing practice.  Revolution is the meaning of life.

Too Deep?

Even I recognize this thought process is stretching a point; However, rebelling against the norm as you grow up, challenging the status-quo does have merit.

Given the deep tracks audience probably includes a few aging baby boomers, I can only surmise reverence by the announcer to the children of the revolution is mostly nostalgic.

In a way this is too bad as the drive for change during that exciting time of upheaval (the decades of 1960 and 1970) led to renewal and improvement in the human condition that continues to this day.  It really deserves much more than just nostalgic consideration.

Marc Bolan did not survive the revolution

Marc died in a car accident in London while driving his purple mini home from a drinking club.  He was not wearing his seat belt.  Perhaps this was gesture of rebellion.

For those of you not fully familiar with the works of the rock band called T-Rex (really a solo vehicle for Bolan) his biggest hit in North America was officially called “Get it On”.  The song was also known as “Bang a Gong (Get it On)” and really was just a simple entreaty to have fun.

The Internet, Naked Women and Playboy

Last month Playboy announced they were no longer going to include pictures of naked women.   The reason,  pictures of naked women are so readily available and easily accessible on the Internet they are no longer a feature draw for Playboy.

Playmate of the month and Playmate of the Year fully dressed just does not sound right to me, however, beautiful women probably do look better with clothing, albeit scantily dressed and suggestive.

Back in the 1960’s, most of us said we only bought Playboy for the articles.  By 1975 the magazines monthly circulation was 5.6 million.  Most of the readers were men who faithfully adhered to the mantra – we only read it for the articles.

For me those fabulous stories by highly acclaimed authors of the day ( Salinger, Asimov, Bradbury, Updike, Cheever to name just a few) were my own main interest in the magazine but I suspect there were those who bought it for the pictures.

Today’s monthly circulation is down to 800,000.  Clothing the women is supposed to get it back up into the multi-millions.  Personally I am not sure this will work, but worth a try I guess.  Maybe they should include my blog as a feature item.

Seeking the Forbidden

This is yet another example of a topic I posted about last week.  Humans are attracted to things that are out of reach, challenging or taboo.   If we all walked around naked not only would naked photos not work as a marketing ploy for playboy, there would not be a plethora of these photos on the internet.

Accessibility can reduce interest (this is not an absolute of course).  It is a proven fact though, that a short fall of supply can drive demand.  Basically this is how hobby collections work.  The most expensive and prized collectibles are those that are hard to find.

And so an era ends

Good bye Marilyn Monroe, Pamela Anderson and Anna Nicole Smith, looks like you won’t be replaced by other Playboy icons,  the nudi era is coming to an end.   Let me wipe that tear away!

Generational Styling

Many factors contribute to your underlying basic behaviors.  Things like geographical culture, genetics, role models, living environment and so on.

Over the last week the behaviors of some younger acquaintances of mine got me thinking about social generations.  Social generations are cohorts of people who were born in the same date range and share similar cultural experiences.   The four most prominent North American social generations alive today are:

– baby boomers  (1946 to 1964)

– generation X   (early 1960’s to early 1980’s

– generation Y/millennials  (early 1980’s to early 2000’s)

-generation Z  (mid 2000’s to today)

At the risk of stereotyping …….

It is impossible (and probably stereotyping) to pin specific behaviors on a generation – as I noted there are so many factors beyond just your social generation influencing how we behave.

Still,  putting genetics, upbringing, cultural background and role models aside, I do observe some commonalities among these social groups derived from the period in which they were born.

This concept led to and reinforced my earlier observation about common behaviors among my young friends from generation X.  I have no empirical data supporting these subjective observations but here they are anyway.

My observations

There is a different attitude to accountability and responsibility and the term I have often term coined that this is the “me” generation really does seem to apply.  (And I thought it was all about me.)

One thing I really admire though is the laid back demeanor so often observed.   Oh, I am envious.

My suspicion is because this was an entitled generation (many from single child families) and as they grew up there was not that much to worry about (nuclear Armageddon was passe), the economy was relatively stable  (their parents were well and stably employed) and when they needed something it was there.

And of course the most obvious trait though is for generation Z for whom mobile devices are virtually an appendage.  What you want to talk face to face, that’s what texting is for.

social generations

And the disclaimer

Today’s post is very subjective and I am just sharing my thoughts.  Categorizing any group (by color, age, ancestry, etc) is absolutely wrong and I do not buy into it.  Fun to speculate a little occasionally though.

Seeking Extraordinary

When you get up in the morning do you plan to be extraordinary.   Are you seeking the exceptional?

Planning to Astonish

Being extraordinary probably will not just happen.  To astonish, that is achieve the exceptional, requires planning.  This is a conscious activity.

To some degree being extraordinary is subjective.   I know I am exceptional but what do others think.

The reality is to be truly extraordinary, that is exceptional or astonishing needs to be recognized by others to truly fit the classification.   Without external validation, just thinking  you have achieved the extraordinary isn’t enough – maybe it is for you but the internal satisfaction is just that – internal.

Why Bother?

Get up, seek to be great, seek to achieve.  This is not an effortless set of activities.  Sometimes I have trouble with the first one alone – getting up.  So, what’s the business case?  Why not just go with the flow, what’s wrong with just being ordinary?

As I have mentioned in previous posts, I personally live by the ethos that as I travel through life’s adventures, seeking maximum personal pleasure is my goal, as long, of course, as it does not impinge on the pleasure of others.

What if people said I was an exceptional basket ball player like Magic Johnson?    Wouldn’t it make me feel good.  Sure it would.  (I am a terrible basketball player by the way and not trying to imply otherwise).  It would probably give pleasure to others as they watched and cheered for me as well, satisfying both my pleasure and others.

I am not suggesting we should all seek to be basketball superstars.  The point is not in the achievement but rather in the seeking.  The underpinning of this is planning.  If you don’t plan to be exceptional, if you don’t seek it,  attaining the the goal is unlikely.

And the point

It is kind of a theme through out my posts, if you don’t know what you are trying to achieve, you won’t know when you achieve it and most likely it won’t be exceptional.

A final note:  Thanks to my friend and former colleague for bringing up this topic for discussion today, very thought provoking.

Forbidden Fruits Drive Desire

Reverse psychology is the practice of demanding someone not do what you want them to do.   Observation of basic human behavior has led people to believe this will cause the object of your demand to do just the opposite, which is what you want them to do.  And my own experience is it often works.

Humans love to want what they cannot have.  My parents recognized this and were open and helpful about letting their children access things that were not really bad but forbidden, things like alcohol, sex, drugs and roll n roll.  Most teenagers top four desires.  The idea being, you would learn proper respect for these things early on and then use them wisely.

Liberal Philosophy has it’s place

This early liberal education facilitated by my parents really worked.

For example, when I was thirteen or fourteen I had a party with eight or so friends.  My mom supplied the beer.  Enough for us to get heavily inebriated to the point of being sick and of course well hung over the next day.   My friends had slept over and as we sat down in the kitchen, Mom set a full plate of eggs, sausages, ham and bacon for us to partake.  Of course this just aggravated our already sorry state.

I did not really get it at the time, but this was a teaching moment, in a safe and nurturing environment. I survived but my lifelong respect for alcohol and appreciation for the value of using it wisely began at that early age.

Not Anarchy

No one who knows me well would classify my beliefs as liberal but I do recognize the value of balance between liberal and conservative practices and while there are definitely things that should have restricted access because of the danger they represent (e.g., heroin) there are lots of those other things that restricting their use until adulthood creates desires and opportunities for misuse more than anything else.

(N.B. – I have some good stories about sex, drugs and rock n roll too but I am trying to keep these posts G-rated.)

Instant Gratification can cause great harm

By it’s very definition strategic planning is high level and longer term.  This means the benefits derived from the plan can be some time in coming.

Lip Service

It never ceases to amaze me that people often discuss strategy and how strategic their approach is only to immediately turn around and react to a situation without consideration of the long term effects.   Strategies don’t work if they are just mouthed as meaningless parables to impress the followers.

Driven by Instant Gratification

So often our behaviors are driven by the need for immediate results.  We need to do it now and get our reward.  Sadly this approach is often likely to produce lower quality and less effective results.  This is not just my opinion – there are a multitude of studies on this topic, all consistent in the conclusion that strategic approaches are more likely to produce consistent high returns (just use a search engine like google to uncover a myriad of these kinds of studies)

It’s our own fault

You have probably heard this before, ” you get what you reward”.   Most often we are likely to recognize immediate behaviors and long term actions get lost under the radar.  No reward, no recognition leads to the question, why bother?

There are rare examples of corporate and other organization leaders going against this natural behavior with fabulous long term results but it is hard to do.  Just consider the way we track things, i.e.,  monthly reports, quarterly reports, annual reviews, etc.    Certainly there are cases where long term achievements are captured and analyzed but this is more the exception than the rule.

Most puzzling to me is this approach to long term over short term gratification is intuitive and logical, somehow though it is not embedded into our basic human behavior.

Enjoying all life’s little pleasures

If you are a regular reader of this blog you have been exposed to my basic personal philosophy about life.  That is, live to maximize your own personal pleasure as long as it does not impinge on the pleasure of others.

Pleasure is a broad and basically generic descriptor that could apply to a large variety of activities/ experiences.  Yesterday I had one of these moments where the level of pleasure surprised me.

Reading Dr Seuss

One of my favorite books of all time is “Green Eggs and Ham” by Dr. Seuss.  I had forgotten how much I loved that book until I read it to my grand daughter yesterday.   Funny thing is, although my grand daughter was there, to a some extent I was reading it to myself.  What a great story.

For those of you not familiar, the protagonist of the story  beseeches the subject to try eating green eggs and ham.  Ultimately the food is eaten and enjoyed.   The short words (to help with learning to read) the rhyming (to make it fun) and the story itself all combine for a great read.

Reading for Pleasure

I have always enjoyed reading, something I am sure I can attribute to my parents to some extent (regular mandatory library visits helped for sure).  Over the year’s I have read thousands of books but last night I remembered how much I enjoyed one of my first reads.

Don’t Forget

Pleasure can come from anything, it does not need to be big or small, extravagant, public or private, enduring or short.  The key is that you truly enjoy eat, embrace it, don’t begrudge yourself that moment of pleasure.

Listen to the Music (cont’d)

On Oct 25th I started a post about the 37 live rock concerts I have attended in my life so far.

Over time,  I am listing the next three best.  Two posts so far covered the top six, today’s covers seven to nine.

Just a reminder; 1) Paul McCartney, 2) Led Zeppelin, 3) Elton John 4)Alice Cooper 5) Al Stewart  6) Queen

And today’s list

7) Bee Gees –  This is a band with a long and iconic career starting in the mid-sixties as a Beatles sound alike, through disco to progressive style in the eighties followed by pure pop.  Arguably their best incarnation was the disco/funk sound of the late seventies and early eighties and that’s when I saw them.  They were just peaking from the huge success of the Saturday Night Fever movie sound track.  The show had all the hits to that point both the oldies and current and of course included the mandatory disco ball light show.

8) Deep Purple –  One of those lucky experiences I attended this bands special concert at a Toronto night club with a capacity of 2500.  This was the most famous line-up of the band – the ones that created Smoke on the Water.  Imagine standing right beside the large PA speaker as smoke boomed out – unforgettable.

9) James Taylor –  This singer/ songwriter is not my typical cup of tea but a favorite of my wife.  The concert tickets were a birthday present to her and fortunately she decided to take me.  Fortunately because I have seen few more entertaining performers.  This is an artist who leveraged his years of experience to give the audience maximum pleasure.  I was not sorry I went at all.