When you care about something, there is a danger you will become hooked (like a fish on a line) and squirm and wiggle trying to get off the hook, right up to your last breath.
Given this line of thinking, not caring can be a real stress free way to travel through life. Think about it. I have an interesting true life example of employing the “stuff happens” attitude that illustrates how this can work.
Loosing Your Wallet
A gentleman I know lost his wallet in a restaurant. It fell into a crack of the seat of a booth he was sitting in.
For myself and most people I know this would have resulted in panic, worry, fear, frustration, anger – basically a whole suite of strong but unpleasant emotions.
This gentleman simply accepted that stuff happens and went about the process of canceling his cards, reapplying for the other stuff and general replacing the wallet contents.
Weeks later, (well after the replacement work was completed) the wallet arrived at his home in the mail. The restaurant cleaner had found it and using the address on the identification returned same (nothing was missing),
At this point my personal reaction about what happened would be worn on my sleeve for all to see. My gentleman friend simply let is slide off, smiled he got his money back and moved on.
The point, why care about something and get yourself in a tiff when nothing can be done and really there is no good reason to care about it.
Care when it makes sense
And the moral to the story is, if there is no reason to care don’t put yourself through the anguish. Some things just are and need to be accepted.