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Destiny

Do we have an inescapable fate?  Are things just meant to be?  Destiny refers to things that will necessarily happen to us in the future.  Out of our control is implied.

Although it is outside of the intended meaning of the work I wonder if we can create our own destiny through action.  The concept is based on acting in a strategic and visionary way such that your pre-determined fate is actually morphed.

Pragmatic Approach

It is important to deal with things sensibly and realistically in a way that is based on practical rather than theoretical considerations.  If something is inevitable however you behave won’t change that.

However, sometimes we can be too pragmatic in our approach.  Stretching into the area of theoretically possible things and believing in them means we do have a chance to overcome our destiny.

It may be easier to believe in the pre-ordained, that is there is nothing I can do to make a change so why try?

Taking Action Works

The history of humanity seems to demonstrate an inevitable destiny is not reality.   Events throughout history have clearly changed the course.

While we cannot yet travel back in time and change the actions and behavior to see if the results would actually change we can logically and intuitively visualize this to be the case.

The outcome of world war two is a simple and straightforward example of this re-imaging.  Numerous treatise has been written about what-if scenarios and outcomes if different political and warfare actions were undertaken.

Destiny is within our grasp, we just have to be clear what we seek and plan the best approach to achieving our goals.

 

 

Deciding to Feel Good

When you encounter a happy, friendly, optimistic person do you ever wonder why they are behaving that way?  Perhaps something good just happened or good things are on the way.

Or it could be they choose to feel that way.  After all feeling good is really just a state of mind. The sense of satisfaction and well being is defined by your emotional state.

Take Charge

I begin this section with the caveat that the recommendations herein are much easier to write about than to actually undertake.  However, while hard to achieve, the personal value associated with owning and controlling your state of mind is immense.

You can identify when you are not feeling good pretty easily.  I will go out on a limb and say everyone has felt shitty at some time in their lives and you just feel it.

How you feel is under your control, although subconscious and external influences definitely play a big role.   Positive self-talk can change your state of mind as well as taking an optimistic approach.

These actions, though, should not be taken blindly or without true belief as otherwise, they will just backfire.

Root Cause

Changing your state of mind begins with understanding what is driving you to be sad, fearful, annoyed and so on.   In reality there is no reason to feel anything but full of joy.

We only have one life to live (as far as we know so far) and both logic and common sense dictate enjoying it to the fullest.  Why not?

Understanding what is bringing you down and putting into perspective, it is transient and probably minor in the context of the universe.  This approach will enable you to adopt a state of mind that puts you in a happy and good place.

Taking or Making Opportunities

When a set of circumstances  make it possible to do something, it is an opportunity.  Do opportunities arise because we create them or are they present and we only need to decide to take them.

Of course it is a bit of both.  Creating your own opportunities can be both challenging and rewarding.  Recognizing the presence of an opportunity  and then acting on it is not as easy as it sounds it requires self awareness.

You shiold be atuned to the potential for an opportunity to appear at any time.

Embracing the Possible

Whether engineering your own opportunities, that is influencing circumstances in a way that enable you to do the thing you want to do, or just taking advantage of a chance opportunity, the motivation lies in the outcome.

That is the opportunity itself, the thing that is being made possible entices you because it is something you desire.  While something may become possible if it is not desirable it is not really an opportunity from your perspective.

Take Advantage

When something you seek becomes possible, don’t hesitate to embrace  the chance.  Do not ponder or wonder why the something you seek is now possible, rather, simply procced.

Good fortune in the form of opportunity, whether self created or providential is not omnipresent and so should not be ignored. When the opportunity arises, embrace it.

An opportunity missed is an opportunity wasted.