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Change is Good

Every moment we of our lives change is occurring.  It might be outside our field of perception or could directly impact us.  It might impact us later but the process of things becoming different is inevitable.

Change can be transformative or relatively minor in nature however even the smallest change can might not impact until months or years later.

For example, a butterfly might create a small breeze in South America as it flutters through the meadow that later becomes the impetus for significant weather changes perhaps a hurricane in Florida.

Quantifying Change

Subjectively we might approve of the change considering it desirable (maybe we initiated it) or conversely we may consider it of low value to us even harmful.

Given the subjective nature of our assessment and the fact change will occur it behooves us to find some good in all changes.   Accepting change, adapting and thriving in it is far better than the alternative.

Managing Change

Although most people can find ways to accept and support changes this is rarely the first reaction.  Change management needs to focus on helping everyone impacted see the good that comes from the change, as it relates to them.

Without effective change management, whether someone helps you through a change or you do it yourself, our default approach is often to seek out and find the bad things.  Ultimately this makes the change distasteful to you, unnecessarily so.

Change is good, you just need to find out how it is beneficial to you and adopt the best approach to embracing it.

 

A time to remember

The impacts of the worldwide covid pandemic have affected everyone.  The magnitude of the changes associated personal impact varies, but everyone is touched to some degree.

As the changes continue for over four months the question begins to be asked, “Is this the new normal?”.   In this case normal is most likely referring to the usual or expected.   Without the benefit of a vaccine or sudden transformation of the virus, the answer is likely yes.

Focus on the Positive

The main changes involve spending more time at home  perhaps with your children or others close to you or maybe just alone.  Going out involves taking care not to catch the virus.

The wearing of masks, frequent hand washing distancing yourself from others have become the order of the day.

This things are not onerous and can be beneficial (e.g.,  spending more time with the ones you love).  We might not have sought this significant change in our way of life but is it bad.

My own focus of late has been on the benefits of this altered lifestyle and there are many.

No commutes to a place of work, time to enjoy those close to me more than every and not least of all  time to contemplate my navel (meant metaphorically to represent relaxing and enjoying the little things.)

Not all Good

Of course I do miss travelling and interacting with others virtually can get wearing.  Even before the covid crisis hit everything was not perfect but this can be a good change.  All we need to do is embrace it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Change and Communication

Most if not all people enjoy and embrace routine, that is the familiar.  That is not to say many do not derive pleasure from the unknown or unique activities but on the whole constancy is appreciated. 

If everything was well understood and constant it would be a bit of a boring life.  That being said, most of us do enjoy consistency of simple routine tasks.

For example, your daily travel routine, where you park your car, the time you eat breakfast. This need for routine does not detract from the excitement of say taking a trip to an unknown location, we like that too.  

Supporting Change

With a basic understanding of resistance to change it is possible to plan ways to help both yourself and others to embrace the unknown.  That is to recognize the value and so have fun changing it up. 

The key to making change work, probably 90% of the approach, is communication.  Two-way communication by those promoting the change (could be you) and those on the receiving end (also could be you) is critical.

Being a Part of the Change

hange includes unknown factors, things we have not experienced or practiced regularly or at all.

Understanding the reasons to alter our behaviour and believing we are at least able to voice an opinion, can make the change very palitable. 

Change is exciting.  It is invigorating and constant.  Believing in the power of change, accepting and embracing it, can be a powerful and pleasurable experience.