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Change is Good

Every moment we of our lives change is occurring.  It might be outside our field of perception or could directly impact us.  It might impact us later but the process of things becoming different is inevitable.

Change can be transformative or relatively minor in nature however even the smallest change can might not impact until months or years later.

For example, a butterfly might create a small breeze in South America as it flutters through the meadow that later becomes the impetus for significant weather changes perhaps a hurricane in Florida.

Quantifying Change

Subjectively we might approve of the change considering it desirable (maybe we initiated it) or conversely we may consider it of low value to us even harmful.

Given the subjective nature of our assessment and the fact change will occur it behooves us to find some good in all changes.   Accepting change, adapting and thriving in it is far better than the alternative.

Managing Change

Although most people can find ways to accept and support changes this is rarely the first reaction.  Change management needs to focus on helping everyone impacted see the good that comes from the change, as it relates to them.

Without effective change management, whether someone helps you through a change or you do it yourself, our default approach is often to seek out and find the bad things.  Ultimately this makes the change distasteful to you, unnecessarily so.

Change is good, you just need to find out how it is beneficial to you and adopt the best approach to embracing it.

 

Better Things

English rock band the Kinks song “Better Things”expresses the epitome of optimism in the chorus line ” I know tomorrow you’ll find better things.”

The song was first released on the album titled “Give the People What they Want” in 1981.  What a fabulous album title.  No artistic crap, let’s play what people want to hear.

Optimism

It is all good.  What is wrong with this perspective.  That is, believing everything you do and everything that is done to you is good has got to be pleasant.

Not just believing it, but feeling it.  Knowing it is true, your life is magical.  There is a strong case for consistently practicing and displaying optimism.

Basically, optimism has no downside.  Back to “It’s all good”.  Hopefully this mantra is not just lip service.  Thinking and believing that ultimately everything is beneficial, even if painfull in the moment, leads to a life well lived.

Attitude

Happiness (like sadness) is both infectuous and addictive.  When your underlying emotional construct is positive not only do others see and feel it, but they catch it as well.

Of course the same goes for a dismal gloomy attitude.  Sadly though what people want is better things.  As a human race, overall, one underlying motivator of all behavior is improvement.

As a race, we believe in better.  So why not practice it every day.  Embrace the concept that it is all good and in the words of the Kinks, I know tommorow you’ll find better things.