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Perspective can change your life

Problems and issues are bothersome.   Challenges give us pause and often motivate procrastination.  We perceive problems and issues as unwelcome or harmful and needing to be dealt with and overcome.

Challenges are generally viewed as competitive and requiring effort to overcome.  Our perception tends to influence our behaviour when it comes to issues, problems and challenges.

Take another look

How we perceive things is within our control.  Often the default behaviour comes from our environmental and cultural influences.  We are taught to recognize problems and issues and behave accordingly.

But, does it have to be that way?  What if we trained ourselves to treat problems, issues and challenges as opportunities.  Opportunities to experience great enjoyment.

Why have a negative spin on things that can actual invigorate us and provide a thrill.  Here is an opportunity to excel, and if you don’t while it was a problem or challenge anyway, at least you had fun with it.

Perspective Matters

Entering a situation feeling reticent and pessimistic sets the wrong tone.  It can exasperate everything and simple problems suddenly become scary and complex.

Viewed as opportunities from the get go positions us for achievement.  Just by perceiving the situation differently changes the way we will behave.

Optimism is far more motivating then pessimism.  Why treat something as a problem, that is to what advantage.  Nothing springs to my mind.

Your determine how to perceive any given situation.   What harm is there in proceeding as if it is an opportunity? Really there is no downside.

Challenge/Stress/Anxiety

Anxiety is a natural response to stress or lack there off. Most associate anxiety with the presence of stress, however, the absence of purposeful goals (with their associated stress) can also be worrisome.

While anxiety is typically a feeling of fear or apprehension about what’s to come a lack of naturally occurring challenges or potentially stressful scenarios drives us to find things to worry about.

Making it up

In the absence of things that create stress we will often imagine potential worrisome scenarios. Interestingly, having nothing to do can be as stress as the more commonly recognized scenario of having too much to do.

Our minds are always active with conscious and unconscious thought. Thinking is a constant activity, we cannot avoid brain activity. If your environment is not stimulating you, often you will imagine issues – a car running out of gas, slipping on ice and hurting yourself.

Stress drives behaviour and sometimes is harmful, however no stress can cause us to make up stressful scenarios because we need some stress.

It’s a Balance

Too much stress can affect your help, lead you to unsocial or even unacceptable behaviour while too little stress can actually have the same results.

The key is finding the careful balance between too much and too little stress. In essence this equates to manageable or unmanageable stress.

Anxiety arising from manageable stress can be resolved and in and of itself the resolution activities are healthy. Unmanageable stressful situations should be avoided, both circumstantial but more particularly those of your own design.