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Enjoying what you do

There are reams of material around the value of enjoying how you use your time.  Roughly speaking we can divide our time into three categories:

  • leisure – free time which is not constrained by a need to act in a certain way
  • working. – any time your actions are at the disposal of your employer (including self-employment). This includes paid and voluntary employment
  • sleeping -the voluntary absence of wakefulness associated with the loss of consciousness (different from “sleeping with” which refers to sexual relations)

Whatever you are doing, regardless of the focus or category almost all studies indicate you do it better the more you enjoy it.  Although a bit subjective enjoyment is broadly considered things we perceive as pleasurable.

Without Joy

I ask myself if the activity I am doing brings no joy, why am I doing it.  Obviously we have needs that go beyond constantly seeking pleasure alone but those are the ones to avoid whenever you can.

Whether at work, leisure, or sleeping the absence of joy makes the activity less likely to be performed with vigor and enthusiasm.  So what’s the point?

Hedonistic

Being engaged solely in the pursuit of pleasure characterized by sensual self-indulgence is not what I am advocating here.  Enjoying or deriving pleasure from all you do is a strategy not an absolute.

Considering others and building them into your personal pleasure profile is tantamount to achieving the objective.

The purpose of this post is to highlight the value of seeking to enjoy all you do whenever possible.   This is perhaps a form of hedonism but I would not classify it as hedonistic behavior.

Selflessness

The impact and effectiveness of our individual strengths can be multiplied many times over through the practice of selflessness.

By focusing our attention more on the needs and wishes of others than with one’s own, we create an environment for teamwork and collaboration.

But it’s all about me

Using circular logic, I can argue being selfless actually supports our individual needs.   It is a bit trite a saying, but really there is always enough success for everyone to enjoy.

Working effectively in cooperation with everyone is both easier on you and everyone else (if you have the right attitude) It is also more effective.  Results are of higher quality, achieved with less effort and create greater satisfaction because everyone can derive some.

Logically, being selfless can, therefore, support my selfish objectives.  Philosophically, seeking maximum personal pleasure without impinging on that of others can require some degree of selflessness.

Collaborating

Working jointly on an activity, especially to produce or create something can be a selfish activity.  You may be primarily concerned with your own personal profit or pleasure (i.e., selfish) but realize being part of a team is the best path to success.

In this way, collaboration and hedonistic self-interest can intersect.  This can be to everyone’s benefit.  Balancing both selflessness and selfishness effectively can actually be a great way to achieve optimum personal satisfaction.

Two Way Street

In brief, helping others helps you.  Being self-centered and confident your life is all about you does not necessarily translate to a lack of selflessness.

Helping yourself at the exclusion of others is selfish but helping yourself in conjunction with others is just smart.