Building on the personal value “Everyone is Important” it is natural to both act with a feeling of deep admiration for others based on their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

Respectful behavior is how we expect others to interact with us and it is reasonable to consider we would do the same for them.  It also fully supports the tenant that our differences are important and should be embraced/leveraged.  

Balance Respect and Action

On a bit of a contrary note (contrary to the aforementioned value), it is possible if you treat others with respect they will walk all over you.   In this case caution may be needed. 

This is not to imply we should not be respectful to others in principle, that is to recognize, accept and to some degree admire their capability. 

Rather it is just a caution about intensity. Some may abuse respectful behavior and others actually respond better because they appreciate the forceful direction that disregards them to some extent.  (Sometimes it is just easier to accept, agree and move on)

Polite but Firm

In some cases your objectives require more directness and less repect for the others but this does not mean rudeness is either a valid or acceptable approach.

Some belief just being polite is respectful so in a sense polite and firm avoids you being a door mat but also can be considered a respectful format.

In the context of this post respect to others is much more than politeness and can open you to being walked on but this does not mean polite behaviour should also be cast aside.