No matter what kind of soap you use, or how much, it is unlikely you can clean up the impacts of bad behavior. The best way to ensure there is no fallout from the way you behave is to not behave badly in the first place.
Sometimes we stretch our behavioral limits beyond both cultural and social standards. When acting outside of the norms you can be viewed as behaving badly (albeit a somewhat subjective measure).
Impacts/ Consequences
Our behavior has a real impact. We can negatively (or positively) affect how others view us but also we could act in ways that cause others pain or harm them in some way (of course we can do good as well).
The things we do and how we act matter. In some cases, these actions can have irrevocable results. Bad behavior usually leads to negative outcomes while we may work hard to make amends or fix the damage, in reality, the past status quo can never be truly restored.
The results of bad behavior can never be fully cleaned up, regardless of how apologetic or remorseful we are. It is more effective to avoid acting in ways that could harm your reputation.
The Simple Approach
Most often, if not always behaving badly stems from emotional override. Our logic and restraint are overridden by a flood of emotions.
We feel it coming on and know what we are experiencing but for many, we are unable to hold back our passion, excitement, anger, frustration, etc.
The simple solution is to adopt a personal belief bad behavior has no value or benefit and must be avoided at all costs. When you start to cycle up the bad behavior curve, stop, ignore everything around you.
Force yourself into a state of relaxation, take several deep breaths and then start again from the bottom – and stay there.
