I came to a personal realization today about beliefs.  This came to me during a philosophical/ theological discussion with some colleagues at the University of Alberta.

What you believe belongs to you

Personal beliefs can be informed, even total consistent with those of a group (e.g., your country, a religion, a fraternal organization) or they can be exclusive and individual.

During the conversation I came to realize the importance of respecting, even trying to understand others beliefs.  This is the cornerstone of peaceful and enjoyable co-existence.    I came to the realization that opposite perspectives, beliefs practices and behaviors can be practiced in tandem as long as mutual respect exists.

Something must be Right and something Wrong

I question this absolute.  Can not two seemingly contrary views both be right.  I think so.  Do you have to see it my way,  I think not.

To clarify the context of the above point, I am referring to the conceptual not the physical (clearly if you jump off a bridge, you will do yourself physical harm – to think you won’t is wrong).

Respect!

The most important aspect of sharing your personal beliefs is respecting those of others with alternate views.  It does not matter how strongly I feel, or how sure my way is THE WAY, there is always room for considering another perspective.

Understanding, considering being sensitive lead to value discussions with benefits for all.  Learning all around.

So relax, enjoy, let others help you see the bigger picture and at least consider the options,  no matter if you know in the your heart of hearts how wrong they are.

Who knows you may be surprised.